kink

there is something primal about kink. and i think to be allowed to consensually and equally play with kink, whatever yours may be, sets forth a release that goes beyond physical. it is a bottomless soul release; a connection to another (though it's illicitness maybe just as much of a charge) that allows you to be who you are at that primal level with no judgments or condemnation and you are absolutely, mind, body (and if done right, spirit), lost in the sensations and the sharing of space and time and intimacy with that (or those) persons.

Here and here are a couple of blogs that explore many facets of sexuality.